Mixing Business with Pleasure

I read this article from vanilla lover blog, I was thinking of sharing this you guys..

the ten commandments of love

1. Take your time. The creation of
anything worthwhile takes patience and
energy. you don’t build a relationship
overnyt.

2. Don’t smother each other. no one
can grow n d shade. dnt feel as f u r
requird to spend evry waking hour wid
dos u love. mov asyd frm time to time
& allow dem a separate space, too.
never force any1 2 do anything for
u “n d name of luv”.love is not 2 b
bargained for.

3. Don’t brood. get on wid living &
loving. Stop going thru lyf in self-
pity, self-blame and the meaculpa
syndrome. we are not as bad as we
think.

4. Exercise feelings. feelings have
meaning only as they are expressed in
action. increase tenderness &
intimacy. they are source of
nourishment for relationship.

5. Forming relationship takes a lot of
looking. but looking can be fun. grow
up togeder.

6. Dont be afraid. stop all worry.
Most of what you are worried about
u’ll have difficulty
remembering a week later.

7. Learn to listen. u dont learn
anything from hearing yourself talk.
see all criticism as positive,
for it leads to self-evaluation. f u
take time to talk
togeder each day, u’ll never become
strangers.

8. Dom’t lose touch with the craziness
in you. this, with a large dose of
caring, will assure that the
relationship will never be boring.
keep laughing.

9. Don’t be afraid of disagreements
and arguments. the only people who do
not argue are people who do not care.
in fact, dont have a short
arguments. make certain they are
thouroughly over and done with. after
an argument is over, forget it.

10. Stop playing games. a growing
relationship can only be nurtured by
genuineness. relationship
are not sporting events. stop
wrestling for contol.
no one wins this kind of match, except
divorce lawyers.

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